5 Things Guys Wish That Every Girl Should Know

November 19, 2017 lil teryan 0 Comments

It seems different and hard as guys minds are like sealed windows and you can’t get in to know what’s going in there. But does it means that you stop trying to read his mind and perceive on your own? No Actually, men and women have some pretty glaring differences. We tend to have different tastes and these differences, no matter how small, can cause some intense debates. All of this seems to lead back to one, main issue. We just don’t understand each other and that’s all there is to it.

We’ve decided to help ease the frustration with 5 things guys wish every girl should know!

1. Guys don’t listen

Men would just like women to know that they don’t listen and it’s not their fault. How many fights have started or tears shed because a woman thought her man was daydreaming or not listening to her story instantly? Probably a lot. However, men and researchers would like to point out that their brains just don’t work that way. Seriously.

MRI scans have revealed that during conversations, women’s brains light up like a Christmas tree in Rockefeller center while listening. On the other hand, men’s brains tended to resemble more of a night-light.

2. Those three little words

A lot of guys are not just the type to say ” I Love You” all the time. In fact, a lot of men express how they feel about their significant other by doing things. What do we mean? Well, instead of saying I love you, a guy might fix that broken sink, take out the garbage or clean up the yard.

This way they are showing their affection by doing things that improve their partner’s life or make their day easier.

3. They need space

It’s no surprise men need their space, they tell women this all the time. The problem is, most of the time, girls take it the wrong way. When a guy says he wants space, your first reaction is usually to cling on to them as if you’ve done something wrong. This completely backfires.

He doesn’t mean anything personal, guys just need time and space so they can miss you. So if your guy says he needs space, give it to them, chances are he is going through something or wants some time to spend alone.

4. Crying is blackmail

Making a girl cry is a guy’s worst nightmare, and it’s something that all women know. Many times women cry in an argument, even if it doesn’t warrant such an emotional response. When unwarranted crying happens, men feel like they are being blackmailed. Of course, there are times that he will feel bad if he did something to hurt you.

When that isn’t is the case, they will stop the argument just to make you stop crying, but that doesn’t mean the argument is over in their minds.

5. Thinking about the future

Though may not seem like it, guys are always thinking about the future, just not the same way you are. There are many things men want to accomplish before they can even begin to plan forever with you. From financial stability to being where they want in their careers, men want to make sure that they have the security to take care of a wife and family.

Though he may not tell you this, men are always working to obtain these mental milestones so they can get to the fun stuff, like planning a life and family with you.

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